Help! Help!!!!!!!
Hello lovelies, it's another great week.
I have an interesting and interactive topic today and the picture above explains it all.
What do you do when you can't see where the relationship is going??
Relationship as we all know is a beautiful thing but when you sit back and you can't see the future of the relationship, what do you do?
Here is what I suggest;
1. Communicate; Communication cannot be over emphasized in a relationship Yes!
You have to talk and talk no Assumption.
Communication simply put is the act or process of using, words, signs, behaviours to express your ideas, thought, feelings etc. to someone else.
When you can't see where the relationship is going, have a heart to heart talk with your partner. Don't hold back let it flow.
2. Counselling; Seek Help from professionals, your pastors or elders you both respect. It isn't a case of who is "wrong" or "right" but rather how you two can work better together.
3. Be Honest; Tell yourself the truth!!! After you have done all you have to be honest with yourself. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage is a popular quote. I hope you are able to work it out. All the Best!
What is your suggestion with regards the above topic?
Let's share, let's learn.
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The first part of being in a long lasting rtnship is to find urself. Be in love with ur self. When u care for someone deeply, things change.you change,they change, you change together.u understand there has to be a give and a take in a relationship. If someone isn't into me for example I don't even give them the opportunity to treat me like a piece of cabbage. I take a long walk. People get themselves into trouble by trying to stick around, either because they feel their partner will begin to love them the way they want to be loved or because they are scared of being out of relationship. If you are the only one depositing in the relationship nne soon u will be a total rack. U shd be appreciated. As a matter of fact if uve been with this particular guy for 6 months n he's not asking road to ur village, baby pls bounce back into the street that dude is wasting the precious time that u don't have.
ReplyDeleteLove is complicated enough without the added pressure of trying to always second guess what your partner will do at any given moment. That fairy tale of the perfect connection can often turn into endless turmoil,if it's not clicking in the early stage forget it the later stage will be a bumpy ride. The truth is we all know when a relationship is heading to a good direction. We make excuses for the guy when its not going right.Don't stick around a guy for what u think he's worth, stick around for what u are worth to him.
Hahaha lovely @ Chizzy Mba I love the bounce back into the street.
ReplyDeleteSometimes people get scared of starting over but anything worth doing is worth doing well......
I love the part of being honest with our selves. Many times,the truth is keeps staring us in the face,but we just purposely ignore for fear of the unknown,fear of being alone,fear of "what if another doesn't come",fear of all my mates are married. We just stay put in a very bad rtelationship for ALL THE WRONG REASONS! You don't want to live the rest of your life in misery.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing Goodness.
DeleteI agree..communication is the key but unfortunately, when people even communicate...they don't do so honestly...So I think communicating honestly is one way to deal with it. Personally, I think when two people can say how honestly they feel or want in a relationship, the world would have less broken hearts. My twokobo
ReplyDeleteYou are right@ Quincy. Honesty can't be over emphasized in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteHonesty with your partner and more especially with yourself because sometimes we know the relationship isn't heading the right way yet we keep finding excuses for the misbehavior.
Thanks for sharing.